As human beings it is important that each may have a safe space. Both physically and spiritually. This is not a place of escape, for there is no such thing in this world. This is not a place of weakness, for strength most be given to others at all times. This is a place of regeneration and peace. As a martial artist, there are only two such places one may find. This must be one’s home and one’s training hall.
The world we live in is not a safe place for anyone. To believe this will only bring hurt upon your path. This is due to the innate instinct of the human. There is no such thing as community. The world is directly one of competition. The world wishes to see you fall. This is found in professional relationships, close relationships, and everyday passings throughout the day. Without armour, one is to be harmed. Therefore, it is your responsibility to wear the armour, especially when others can not. To give respect and honour to those who carry high morals. For this is a rare thing to find.
Of the home, one can say I am a “traditionalist”. I care nothing of debate as to how anyone wishes to live their life, as long as it brings harm to no one. It is the responsibility of a man to make his house a safe place for his wife and family. To be both the foundation and the roof. To give the support, guidance and protection. The security that there is no anxiety to feel in this ever chaotic world. Thus allowing your wife to give the care and love that a man and his children desires and needs. To make the house a safe place for him. For it is easy to fall into hatred and warlike perspectives when left to ones masculine self. This is a topic that can be wrote of extensively. The modern quality of men, and the lack of many qualities we now face.
Next is the safe place of the training hall. This is to be a place to both cultivate the body and spirit. A place of safety, to prepare for the world of hate. Mutual respect, alongside constant forward development, and what the entails. A place of training and ever testing. Inner self exposure to reveal paths of growth. A place to inspire the heart to greater acts of courage and dedication to a noble cause. Yes, a place of romantic idealism, for both the child and the elder. I have no training hall. Yet, one day I wish to have such a place, one not a public entity. Not all halls are created equal. Both in quality of leadership and atmosphere.
In leadership, we are in an ever losing world. I stand behind traditional martial arts behavior and teaching when it comes to leadership, and man to man dealings. In a world were sports gyms are ripe, and behavioral desires have fallen to the absolute lowest examples, we are in need of noble Tradition. We are in need of respect and true spirit. We are in need of humility veiling a true Dragon. There are many types of leaders. The highest position, must be willing of completing the lowest task, else he is unworthy of leadership. The highest ranked must still be able to place himself upon his knees to replace floor boards alongside the white belt… Mankind’s desire for importance of position, and the insecurity that brings if ones spirit is undeserving is a disease this day. “Leaders” who are desperate and embarrassed of their true personal traits, ever seeking dominance in insecure ways. These men are many and one of true spirit can easily see such men. These are the pitfalls and relationships to be avoided. I have experienced first hand the lowness of leaders, insecurities and self hatred that manifest into the hall, upon students. From sporting gyms, to traditional arts. Every man must live in the solitude of their own home, for the qualities they bring to the hall they take home. Every man that walks, travels towards an end, unfortunately dragging others alongside the way. Some men never create a safe place, for themselves or others, for their armour is unforged. Therefore understand what you take part in, with who you choose to associate, with who you give and take…
In the training hall, the current lowest, must be able to see himself in the current highest, and vice versa. A relationship were all can meet in the middle, with the respect that we are here together. This is the heart of the Training hall. Yet this is were the discipline of the hall comes into play. Ritual, and the importance to always maintain such a thing. A safe place is not about the classes being full of laughter and uncontrolled smiles. This is giving out a shortcoming. It is not about belts given too rapidly. It is not about pretending to be in the modern military and such breaking abuse. This is not the legacy of the martial arts. Not what is being created. Not about massive classes to pull profit. For a teacher is to be as selective of students, as a student is to be of a teacher. It is about ritual, past legacy and spirit, the maintenance of such a thing. For only here and in ones home is such a thing possible. It is to find the sage and the warrior. It is about the atmosphere, the temple. I am an artist, it is called martial “arts”. The spirit should be tangible in the setting. A place to inspire in silence. The setting, the floors, the countless weapons and decor. It must be an inspiring place, the spirit saturating the walls. Respect for tradition and guide, a separate world momentarily, a world of empowerment and safety. It is in this empowerment, that one will then bring forth this spirit into a spiritless world. And thus righteous ritual and tradition will live that much longer. It is my desire to one day create such a place. A training hall that when one steps into, they have entered through a portal, a portal closed to many. Into a time long past, or perhaps a time that never existed. Were the rare ideals of chivalry may still be harnessed. A safe place, not of ease and relaxation, of empowerment and ever striving. To carry this forth into a deadening world. For it is these ideals that build our houses, or businesses, our world, our legacy. Our place of silence in this world of noise. It is carrying such tradition that the great masters of old smile down upon us. That in a world of darkness, some men still carry a torch.